He had no idea what we were getting into. He rejoiced along with me when my son and I were reconnected through Soundex 12 years ago. He knew that I registered with ISRR shortly after my son turned 18, watches as the years went by and my hopes waned, and listened when I considered actively searching (which I never found the courage to do). Henry knew I grieved the loss of my child and that I hoped someday we would find each other. I told my husband about my relinquished son before we got married. Its impact reaches well beyond the reunited, disturbing the peace, changing the lives and altering the relationships of everyone in their circles. When he isn’t around her leaves an awful hole, doesn’t he?” – James Stewart as George Bailey in “It’s a Wonderful Life” “Strange, isn’t it? Each man’s life touches so many other lives. Written in PACER’s Spring/Summer 2008 newsletter All of us have had bad experiences.By Denise Roessle. He keeps saying we "just do not understand!" He is right. He admitted just recently he has low self esteem as well.ĭementia? Metal toxicity? OCD? What could cause this? Used to think I was this emotional trigger to his past, until I found out he did the same to other family members. And it upsets all of us, to hear these negative experiences retold, and often. It upsets him to relive it, can't get that across. Relives it in the telling to the point I have seen tears in his eyes. Just days ago, he said yet again, "Why did my Daddy do that to me?" I don't know.
But these people are long dead, now, with exception of ex.ĭad dead since '05. Repeats these stories to all family members. Wife left him, had to pay maximum, he says more, child support. Past bad experiences with father, and grandmother.
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